Ok so I need to vent a bit…. Last night I was talking to my girlfriend about her moving here and all, and we’re both excited but at the same time kinda nervous and scared. That’s normal right? I mean, I understand her being nervous about moving to a different country, where she just knows me, and we speak a different language and all. I just don’t want her to be like super scared. And I’m kinda nervous too, because she will basically depend on me completely at least at first, and I don’t know, I just want everything to work out. I’m also nervous cause it will be a big change for me, I’ve never had a girlfriend here in Chile, and I’m sure it won’t be easy. People are not as open minded as they are in other places, like the US, so I know having a girlfriend won’t be the easiest thing. Ahhh I don’t know I’m just nervous about everything, is this me just being silly, should I just try to relax and not worry so much about everything? Cause I really want her to come here, I just feel responsible for her cause she’s so much younger and all. I know this must be so much scarier and harder for her too, I just want her to be happy about it and not so scared. I don’t even know if I’m making much sense, am I? lol We have waited for soooo long, that now that the time is getting closer and closer, I think we’re both freaking out a little. But all we both want are for things to work out. Well anyway, that was my rant for today. I would like to know what you all think.
martes, 10 de abril de 2007
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It is scary... for both of you. You'll never know if you don't give it a go though. Look at it this way... what could you live with more;
1)her not coming over and you forever wondering "what if?". Passing up what could have been your one chance to be with your soul mate forever.
2)her coming over and things not working out, but knowing that you both tried, and at the very least cementing a friendship that will probably last lifetime.
Yep, that's what I thought.
You'll be just fine.
xxx
My situation is not quite like yours. It hold weight for different reasons. My girlfriend moving to be with me will not lead her to another county but she has a son. I worry about all of the same things you do too. It definitely not a decision to be made lightly, but I agree with jd's rose. I would rather know that not. I don't want to live without her.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is... I understand. I wish you both luck sweetie.
Change is always somewhat stressful. But,if you are both understanding that there will be challenges ahead YET are willing to work through it together- you will be fine. Good Luck to you both!!!
Happy Birthday
33 is an awesome year. Everyone I know has found that 33 is a year when their lives change dramatically. Hold on, and enjoy the ride. Its all for the best!
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