miércoles, 31 de enero de 2007

How I met my girlfriend

I am so upset today, I can’t think about anything else but how much I hate my job. I need to vent a little… Ok so I’m an architect, and I work at a place where the salaries are not fixed, so each month is different…. And this month… I got 60% of the salary I’m “supposed” to get… how freaking stupid is that??? I made so little money it’s almost ridiculous… I’m sooo pissed off, if it was easy to find another job I would quit… Ughhh!!

Anyway, onto a better subject… Some of you asked me how I met my girlfriend. So here’s the story. I used to go to a message board for some tv show, and I met a lot of friends there, from different countries, mostly the US. At first with L (I’ll just call her L) we were friends, but not best friends. After a while I got to know her better and we became really good friends, so we planned on me going to visit her. I went to NJ for a week, and well, let’s just say the “friends” thing just worked out for the first couple of days lol. After that we were definitely more than friends. It was really sad when I had to leave cause I didn’t know when I’d see her again. And it’s been a year and 2 months since then. We haven’t been able to see each other for different reasons, but we have plans of her moving over here in august. I really hope everything works out. It’s really hard but we love each other very much, and we want to be together. I think it’s amazing that she’s willing to move to a different country for me… she rocks. :) I love her so much.

You know what? I think I’m just gonna write this in English, there´s nobody reading in Spanish so far and it’s too much work lol.

ps: Can anyone tell me how to add links to the entries? Like make a word that´s a link? I don´t know a lot of html. Thanks!

9 comentarios:

Landlady of Fat dijo...

Yay english! lol

Awww I think it's sweet that she wants to move there too!

Though we really hate losing our homegrown lesbians over here! lol

Unknown dijo...

Hiya Mystic.......

Great blog!! I've been meaning to come over since you left me a comment on my blog the other day and now....well, here I am!! And I will be back....:)

Barb

SheA dijo...

Mystic- Excellent blog. This is one that will be an enjoyable adventure! Peace- shea

Zoe dijo...

Great story. I don't now how you do the long distance thing. You are a stronger person than me.

Lee dijo...

nice story, hope everything works out for August...:)

SassyFemme dijo...

So when you went to NJ was there a thought there was something more than friends sparking between you two, or did it just come out of no where?

SassyFemme dijo...

Oh, for your links... do it the same way you did for the links on the right side to the other blogs.

Anónimo dijo...

Mystic- I know you haven't been to my blog for long, and know what experiences I have been through. I was too dating a woman long distance when I was in Italy and she was in Texas. Unfortunately things didn't work out, mostly for a breakdown in communication and misunderstandings. I can now say that it worked out how it was supposed too, but it's hard when you put everything you have into a relationship.. love, work, time, dreams.. and not have it work out.

My only advice to you is keep focused on the prize of you 2 being together, make sure you talk about EVERYTHING and don't keep little things in.. those are the things that will build up and become something that doesn't need to be. I truly believe love will overcome all obstacles, especially if both people love each other and want it equally :)

Mystic dijo...

Hmm so weird blogger is not letting me get into some blogs today??

Zoe, I´m not a stronger person, it is very hard to keep this long distance thing going and I have thought many times that I can´t do it anymore.

Tina you crack me up! :P

Thanks jd and Sassy for the links help.. duh me...

Angel girl, thanks so much for your advice.

Sassy... hmmm well I think there might have been a spark of something else before I went to NJ, but I think we were both too blind and didn´t realize it lol.

Thanks for all your posts girls! Makes me happy! :)